Why “Flirting With Fear” Is Really About Respecting Its Role In one of my many therapist trainings (yes, I take a lot of classes), an instructor once declared:“Fear cannot live in a mentally healthy body and mind.” Hmm. Okay. Cute quote. But also… not quite right. Fear isn’t an intruder. Fear is a roommate. Sometimes a little loud, occasionally messy,…
When Flirtation Doesn’t Feel Playful For some of my clients, the very idea of flirtation doesn’t feel fun—it feels threatening. They’re not prudish. They’re not cold. And they’re certainly not “too sensitive.”They’re simply carrying a nervous system that has been taught: attention to oneself equals danger. Many women I work with tell me they panic when someone flirts with them,…
What Fear‑Based Living Really Means You’ve probably heard the phrase “fear-based living” in a TED Talk, a therapist’s office, or whispered over wine and worry. But what does it actually mean? It means this: when fear becomes the default lens, life contracts. In my practice, I’ve seen clients whose fear was so persistent—so convincing—it drowned out everything else. They stayed…
By Coach Evie Sullivan — Healing Coach for the Deeply Curious Learning to work with your fear can change everything. It shows up like an uninvited guest in your body — tight in the chest, shallow in the breath, loud in the mind. It whispers worst-case scenarios… and sometimes screams them, too. It’s easy to feel powerless when fear takes…
Are you haunted by the echoes of a traumatic event and feeling as though your past relentlessly invades your present? You’re not alone. If you find yourself wrestling with the shadows of past events, it’s time to step into a space crafted for healing and growth. Imagine a woman who survived a serious car accident, let’s call her Emma. Despite her…
Anxiety isn’t just a feeling; it’s a cacophony of destructive thoughts and limiting beliefs that can dominate your daily life. Perhaps you recognize the nagging feeling that you’re not good enough, the fear of impending failure, or the belief that you can’t handle the pressures of your job or personal relationships. These mental patterns are more than just thoughts; they’re…
If you’re like most people, you might respond with a resounding “Yes!” when asked if you fear spiders and snakes. But have you ever wondered why these particular creatures unsettle us so deeply, especially when they pose little real danger to us? Let’s delve into the science behind our fear of spiders and snakes and explore how we might overcome…
Hypnotherapy transcends the typical expectations of a therapeutic tool; it serves as a profound journey deep into the labyrinth of the subconscious mind, a place where our deepest fears and most ingrained beliefs have taken root. This journey is not merely about exploration – it’s about transformation! Anxiety, often a manifestation of hidden fears and beliefs, can be particularly stubborn…
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) operates on the principle that our thoughts, language, and patterns of behavior are deeply interconnected and can be modified to achieve specific goals, such as reducing anxiety. NLP techniques are designed to interrupt and transform the cyclical nature of negative thoughts and behaviors that often perpetuate anxiety disorders. At the core of NLP is the practice of…
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a distinctive psychotherapeutic approach specifically designed to alleviate the distress associated with traumatic memories. At its core, EMDR therapy uses bilateral sensory input, such as side-to-side eye movements, audio tones, or physical taps, to activate the opposite sides of the brain. This bilateral stimulation is believed to mimic the psychological state of REM…